I have led a lot of Shabbat services in my twenty-seven years as a rabbi, in a lot of different rooms. None of them can compete with a space where the ceiling is the sky.
What struck me most this time was how many new faces were scattered among the beach chairs and blankets.
Some had never been to a Neshamah event before. A few told me afterward that they had been curious about Jewish community in Boca Raton for a while and this felt like the easiest way to try it out. No membership form, no dues, no pressure, just sand between your toes and a melody you might already know from childhood. That is exactly what I hope Beach Shabbat offers, a low barrier and a wide open door.
While Sharon and our Soulmates choir carried us through the service with guitar and harmony, a cluster of kids built some ambitious sand castles near the water line, digging and playing the way kids do.
Whether they were officially “praying” or not, they were absorbing something else, that Shabbat is joyful, that community is where you find your people, and that this is a place their family belongs.
For the D’var Torah, I spoke about mitzvot, and about structure. We tend to think of structure as the opposite of freedom, something rigid and confining. But on Friday, we discussed what has actually lasted throughout history.
Empires with all their armies and their monuments have crumbled into ruins we now visit as tourists.
And yet lighting Shabbat candles on a Friday night, a family gathering for a seder, a community singing L’cha Dodi on a beach in Delray, these small acts of structure have outlasted every empire that ever claimed to be eternal.
The mitzvot of Judaism are not chains. They are the structure that let something as fragile as a tradition survive for thousands of years, carried not by emperors, but by ordinary people showing up, again and again, in ordinary and extraordinary places like the one we gathered at for Beach Shabbat.
After the service, people lingered. Picnic blankets turned into a shared potluck of sorts, kids kept digging, and the orange moon climbed higher and turned to silver. Nobody seemed to be in a hurry to leave, which might be the truest compliment a rabbi can get.
If you missed this one, we will be back on the sand for Yom Kippur Breakfast on Monday, September 21 again on Friday, April 9, 2027.
Bring a blanket, bring a picnic, bring whoever wants to feel the magic of Shabbat in Mother Nature’s sanctuary.